023 Give your guilt a public flogging and do what you f*cking want this Summer (Perceivers listen up)
It’s been raining a lot here in Michigan, so all the outside plans you were excited to check off the list and do keep being thwarted by rain or storms. Too windy or chilly to swim. Can’t have that bonfire if the wood is damp.
Traditional advice here would be to have backup plans for your plans.
But you’re a perceiver! You don’t do backup plans. You do what your gut tells you to do.
I’m here to tell you to embrace the shit out of your gut. Your gut doesn’t let you down, friend. It’s the rest of the world.
Your work this summer isn’t to have backup plans to maximize the fun-having. It’s actually to do the work on your disappointment and expectations of anything and anyone that isn’t you when plans change.
That’s that whole WTF thing. Willing to be Flexible.