You wear your heart on your sleeve, which sometimes is the most rebellious thing you can do in this world.
As The Feeler, you base the decisions you make and the planning you do on how it will make other people feel about you.
You tend to be very giving of your time and energy to others, oftentimes to the detriment of your own self.
You are family oriented, conscientious of others, and you have a creative streak that you downplay, but deep down you wish you could pursue that side of you more seriously.
Your Plan Like a Rebel approach:
P-Y-T: Protect your time!
Your natural tendency to give away your time and energy to help others is your main driver when you sit down to plan.
Because of this, you need to be careful of how much of yourself you give away, and you also need to be in tune with your motivations behind it.
You might be going through a bit of an identity crisis right now because you’re realizing the life you’ve built for yourself, while it may look like what you said you wanted, it doesn’t feel as fulfilling as you thought it would be.
This is because you are often acting from a place of wanting to be perceived as being irreplaceable by others through your giving and helping efforts.
The most deliciously rebellious thing you could do for yourself, Feeler, is to only plan for yourself.
You already to a great job showing up for other people in your life. Now it’s time for you to show up for yourself.
Make sure you’re spending at least one full, straight hour by yourself, doing something that only benefits you. Put that hour in your planner. Make it take up physical space on your schedule, and PYT - Protect Your Time like the fierce mama bear I know you can be.